Category: peace
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Choose Today, Because Pity and Love Cannot Co-exist
“I never saw a wild thingsorry for itself.A small bird will drop frozen dead from a boughwithout ever having felt sorry for itself” David Herbert Lawrence I have an abundance of compassion, empathy, shoulders to cry on and ears that are open and waiting. But when people need pity, I come up empty handed. Every. […]
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Using Your Pain As Medicine
“Make medicine from your pain. Be that kind of warrior” Jaiya John “Inexplicable sorrows await all of us” … Tragedy, pain, struggle, and loss are both inevitable and unavoidable in this life. You cannot be born, live, and die unscathed from the heart breaking and soul crushing blows that will come knocking at your door. […]
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When You are Triggered, Remember This
“At the center of your healing is you, has always been you, will always be you. You are the mender” Upile Chisala I am madly, intensely, and unabashedly in love with a man who admittedly is the only one who can push every single one of my buttons. And as the old folks say, “get […]
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The Thing They Don’t Tell You About Forgiveness
“Life is long, that people both change and remain the same, that every last one of us will need to fuck up and be forgiven. That we’re all just walking and walking and walking and trying to find our way, that all roads eventually to the mountaintop” Cheryl Strayed Everyone talks about the importance of […]
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Peace or Pieces
“Acceptance is a small, quiet room” Cheryl Strayed I had this insatiable need to be right. To have my side of the story not only heard, but accepted as the one and only truth. I wanted the people who had wronged me to admit they were wrong and desire my forgiveness. I needed vindication. Justice. […]